Friday, February 11, 2011

The End of A Love Affair



Well my little loves, I feel it is time to share some news some of you might already know. And answer some of your emails that I had received. The Mistress is now single and ready to mingle!!! You may remember I took a blog break for a month and a half back in the fall and it was due to a petite gin accident with the laptop and my personal issue of the split up of the Boy-Toy and I. We had been together for 10 years, quite a accomplishment in the gay life and for the Mistress!!! But when we came to the decision it was hard at first, and the Mistress needed the time to process the decision. While we still love each other, we're not in love any longer, and we both seem to be going different directions in life, and want different things out of life. We had told some friends, but now we are letting everyone know. And this on the heels of our ex-Governor, Ed Rendell, and his wife,Midge, a State Supreme Court Judge, announcing they too are splitting. And our press release read almost the same as theirs.

Mistress Borghese and Boy-Toy Split After 10 Years of Living in Sin!



Mistress Borghese and her Boy-Toy, announced in an e-mail to newspapers and tabloids today that they will be "living separately" now that they have made the decision to separate after living in sin at the Casa du Borghese. But don't let that prevent anyone from sending us invitations to the same party, the parting couple advised. The split after ten years of a being a couple is "amicable" and they won't find it awkward or uncomfortable to socialize together. "Dear friends, we wanted to let you know that we have decided to embark upon this next phase of our lives by living separately," the e-mail said. "This has been a difficult decision, but we both believe it is the right thing to do. Our parting is amicable, and we will remain friends and continue to be active in our community, sometimes together, sometimes separately."

In all seriousness I thank all my dear friends and family for listening and being there when I needed a ear. And I'm now at peace with the decision we made, as we can still be very best friends and I will never regret any of the last 10 years we had together. I think the hardest part will be the coming home to a empty house at first, but the Mistress is also very independent and likes her own time too. I would have never guessed I would be in a 10 year relationship if someone told me this back when I met the pipsqueak, as the Mistress loves the company of many, many, many men. You think this bitch is crazy and fun now, wait to you see her single!!!! I was already set up twice on a date, but had to cancel as I was ill at the time with the Noro-virus. And I may have to have a weekly date post to keep you abreast of my dating antics and get some occasional advice from y'all. I hear it is like riding a bike. I have already had three suitors, but I told them I didn't want anything serious for some time. While the Mistress may get into another relationship again, I'm am taking this time to go whole hog again and enjoy my time being single again. And you know what, I think I'm going to be ok. Of course the only thing in my mind right now is this Macy Gray song. I think the Mistress has some fun times ahead! Tootles and love to you all!


55 comments:

  1. I'm sure it must be sad to see the Mistress and Boy Toy ride come to an end, but it's great that you can still be friends.
    And I am looking forward to the Escapades of the Mistress!

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  2. Glad you came through everything okay, Mistress! Sounds like you and the Boy Toy are being grown-ups about it, which is great. Let the partying begin!

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  3. The Governor! The Mistress! Bestest wishes to you and Boy-Toy.

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  4. Girl,

    I'm glad you finally made this "public". And it's not surprising that "Fast Eddie" and his wife are copying you!

    You know I'm here if you ever need anything.

    XOXOXO

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  5. Thanks for the official announcement. Love, hugs, and all the best wishes to you both! This all sounds positive and amicable, which is good.

    The dating stories will be interesting for sure. Be sure to let me know the things you can't blog about! I've dated way too much and have stories, too. Some I can't tell even you! Well, maybe. LOL

    xoxoxoxxoxo

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  6. Life is about making the right decisions and moving on. I am sorry to hear the news though. It is always hard.

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  7. You will feel so many things... Hurt, pain, loss, you'll cry and sometimes while you think your not even thinking of him... but it sounds like you both made the right decision and you can stay friends which is nice.

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  8. MISTRESS! I am so sorry to hear the news! 10 years is a long time honey. It hurts a hell of a lot to split up, and you can't stop it... It takes time to heal... I am still not healed and there are times where I can just start and I can't stop! I do commend you both on making a mature choice!

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  9. I'm so sorry to hear the bad news, that sucks! I can't even imagine what it is like since my longest relationship was like three months. I'll be thinking of you. Sounds like we better hose you down!

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  10. Think of it this way
    Mistress, that the next person you meet might be the best thing that ever happened to you, I know this reality is hard to grasp right now, but you know know who is right around the corner. And you single....oh,my, God!

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  11. Well girl you know you can talk to me anytime you want! I'm still shocked to have read about this in the papers!!!! And yes in deed, the boys should look out!

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  12. Take it easy, breaking up is hard to do. You will have somedays that you will think 'why did i do it?' and probably some other days you think you've made the right choice. Let time heal your pain & hurt.... Go do the stuff you've always wanted to do, like have more gin and tonics!!! etc. Whatever it is, friends are a good place to come to when you need advice. Take care of yourself first and keep posting, I can't wait to hear some juicy Mistress dating stories!HUGS- Your in my thoughts.

    XOXOXOXOXOX

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  13. Ah, yeah, I'd say the last couple times I saw you, you are coping well!!!!!

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  14. “Get back on the horse and try again" Mistress, I have a feeling you will be trying many horses! Does this mean now that we will be getting all the dirty stories! And lol at Joy's comment.

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  15. WHAT! No more Boy-Toy stories! I'm so sorry to hear the news and I'm sure you two made the right choice. And you just remember the Rhett Butler line from Gone with the Wind- "There are many places and many people, I shall't be lonely."

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  16. I still can not believe that you are single Mistress. It seems weird to me but looks like you are doing well! And with your dateing stories you'll need a After Hours stories with the Mistress on another blog!!!! The night version! LOL!

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  17. oh, and you can't forget all your talents!

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  18. Oh God that sucks, but it sounds like it was for the best. I wish you luck and the boys on the east better look out. And I love that damn Macy Gray song. Perfect for the sitution I'd say. And LOVE THE MISTRESS IN THE GARB!

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  19. Well I for one can tell you first hand the heartbreak one feels at the end of a love affair.
    Mistress only you can find the happiness you need.
    Keep your head up HO and walk proud.
    You handled it beautifully and your press release was spot on.
    I know I've post a few press releases myslef but they turned out to be false alarms.
    Love will find its way back.
    Who knows, I thought a time or two that Bill and I had come to the end of the road but it was just a detour back to the main road.

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  20. THIS SUCKS! It seems like everyone I talk to is spliting up. Is there something in the water? And no more Boy-Toy -Mistress capers? Well hang in there and I think you guys not what you need to do. 10 years is nothing to cough at. My mother used to tell me,A bend in the road is not the end of the road... unless you fail to make the turn. And does this mean that we are all putting in for the hand of the Mistress, and is there going to be x-rated material here now??? lOVE Joy's comment, your funny Joy!

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  21. I am so sorry for your loss. I know what it is like to lose a love, and my heart goes out to you. But you are already seeing men? You may dear don't let any grass grow huh?

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  22. I am so very sorry honey for your loss....I lost my other half about 2 weeks ago after having him for 13 years..I know the feeling....:( But it sounds like your already having some fun!!!

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  23. I am soo soo soo sorry,sweetie....
    Kisses and hugs

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  24. After checking back in I think a after hours blog could be fun! I'd could be one of the stories!!!!!

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  25. Oh doll, my heart goes out to you. But is sounds like your doing pretty well. I see you still have your sense of humor and minx side in tact! And whats this about a after hours? Is this where the juicy stuff will be? lol

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  26. I'm so sorry to hear about your relationship Mistress. I too read about it in the papers or was it E! Anyhow, hang in there and just get out that little black book!

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  27. It always upsetting to go thru a split, it sucks! Why don't you come out here and we will show you a good time with us boys out here! And love the pic of the fabulous ex couple! Nothing like a new dick to forget the old dick I say!

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  28. Batina2/12/2011

    OH NO! Since I've have been reading your blog it's been you and the Boy-Toy! Well take good care Mistress and remember their are too many fish in the gay sea! Hugs

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  29. Oh no!!! I know from personal experience just how hard this is Mistress. Gosh I am so sorry. I am thinking of you and sending gigantic hugs your way. Tell your personal social director to start the set ups of dates! Can't wait to hear the new journeys!

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  30. Aw, I'm so sorry to hear this, it suck. But glad to hear you are still up to the jokes and laughs! Can;t wait to read about the "sexual revolution" ! LOL!

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  31. I agree it is great to be able to be friends still. After all, your lover has to be your best friend first. But honey, I would give you the gum from my mouth to make you feel better! Now go par take in the sea of men!!!

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  32. Introverted Jack2/12/2011

    I have never commennted before, but I adore your blog and just love the content of it. I never know what will be next, but I wish you all the best in this new chapter! Even though I don't know you two, it is upsetting. I just wanted to wish you well wishes and just had to post my well wishes for all the laughs you give me.

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  33. Thanks for encouraging me, Constance and Jason. If it's something I know about, it's breaking up and stories I can't tell on my blog!

    You know I heart you, Maddie!! xoxoxoxox

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  34. Oh and does this mean the slut is back? I forgot to ask...inquiring minds want to know.

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  35. Wow! Thanks for all the wonderful words of encouragement and for some some good laughs! You guys are the best! And a sister blog for all the dirt? hmmmmmmmmmmmm!

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  36. Been meaning to stop by and wish it was under better timing. But you are going to be alright from what I hear! You just need another night out in nyc with us boys!

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  37. So sorry to hear the news Mistress, but you two know what it is you need. Now sometime when I come out to Philly maybe we can go on one of your escapades! I would love to meet up!

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  38. MY God Mistrss you have a following! Sounds like your already on the mend and it is hard to keep a good ho down!!! Now when you come out maybe this time I'll meet ya, I hear your quite fun! Im sure the Mahogany Empress will hook you up ;) Best wishes to you my dear. And Joy's remarks are funny. What stories do you have my dear about the Mistress???

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  39. Now maybe you come down to here and I'll show Mistress a nice time here. I think you would like what I have to show you.And the beaches are wonderfuls.

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  40. Paws off Grieves, the Mistress is suppose to be in mourning for at least how many months is it for a 10 year split? Don't worry Mistress I'll hook you up if you need to get you mind off things. But I think you have it covered. And I too want to know what Joy knows. Is she getting a after hours preview?

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  41. My hat is off to you Mistress. After ten years I don't think I'd have my wits about me after losing a love. But laughter is the best meds they say. Much peace and love to you honey.

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  42. Hope it gets easier, especially as you start "socializing" more :o)

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  43. Thanks again for the wonderful greeting y'all!

    Adrino- that is very nice but what do you have for me under there. What a nice jester!

    Mahogany empress- my dear you are also too kind!

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  44. My heart and good feeling are with you honey! I think this would over shadow the Gov. split up, I'm guessing?

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  45. Anonymous2/13/2011

    ...never easy, sometimes inevitable, forever a part of us. You've handled this with the utmost in taste my dear -and you will survive beautifully! I admire your courage, respect your honesty, and from someone who's been there -hugs to you!!!

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  46. So sorry to hear the news! But a great diva always bounces back quick and with class, like yourself! I great post, serious and funny at the same time! And keep the boys under control!

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  47. Now if there is a after hours blog, would everybody me mentioned?

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  48. How the hell did I miss this? Im in shock! This bites the big one, but if you guys are happy then Im happy too. I wish you both good wishes for the future. And your both adorable! But I too look forward for the dirt-ta stories of dating!

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  49. Wow! This announcment stirred the pot! Adrino- you look hot but paws off bitch! LOL!!!

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  50. The (Former) Boy Toy2/14/2011

    A very nice post. Thank you, everyone.

    (I'm selling the details. ;)

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  51. Now you have no excuses in heading to the windy city! I need a break! :)

    big hugs and David knows how to contact me if you want to chat.

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  52. TEN YEARS! Are you guys sure? That just sucks but I guess you know what the right things is to do. Now go whore it up- both of you!!!

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  53. Okay, I'm caught up! Sorry for the sad news, but just thing- the single life will be like Mary Tyler Moore gone RuPaul mad!! Blog fodder for months on end! Looking forward to the stories... at least the ones you can remember!

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